Sociologist Herbert Gayle offers insight into murder-suicides and links them to the manipulative nature of women.
From the article:
Gayle said it was past time that society acknowledges women were the ones making significant material progress and often at the expense of men.
“There are a lot of men helping women, and the implications are many - including men killing women. We don’t want that to become a pathology. Men need to begin to think about self-investment,” the anthropologist said. “Young men need to understand that they are the ones who are important first, and that they need to have something for themselves first before they can help anyone. It cannot be a push up situation, but a pull up.”
For the record, I agree with the base observations made in the article. Relationship dynamics in Jamaica do tend towards being centered on the woman. Which is to say that many of the actions of men can be linked back to a desire (or is it perceived need?) of men to please women. How the women choose to handle the inherent vulnerability present in this situation is fair game but more often than not, it ends seeming like a Macka Diamond inspired verse.
I can just see the fireworks coming from the Carolyn Cooper camp now.
Link: Females to blame for male suicides: Sunday Observer Jan 6